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Help & the path forward

Change is in the air. Guessing you feel it too.

Keeping our heads out of the sand, we have choices about how we respond to certain stimuli – whether a relationship shift, world events, financial hardship, a health challenge, or other…

ALL that comes to us is an opportunity to respond from habit or conscious choice. And boy do those habits get baked in! It can take big effort to break free. One of the many reasons I love evolutionary astrology as it helps grow awareness of where/how we can get stuck. Patterns that may have roots in prior lifetimes.

Synchronously as I write, I’ve had to stop as I watch a bumblebee trying to escape our screened in porch. I’m calling her Bumbles.

She sees flowers between her and the screen and keeps pushing against the screen trying to reach the magenta hydrangeas and fragrant sweet pepperbush.

I’ve opened the doors at the other end and am wondering if she will find the way through without more help.

Wild when the angels deliver such a beautiful example of what I’m talking about.

Because…

Sometimes we simply don’t know the path forward and it’s a matter of time and/or help from another. 
Sometimes we need to look at things differently and widen the scope of our perspective.
Many times we are called to heal those false assumptions about what we believe is/isn’t possible. 

Past patterns rooted in prior lifetimes can wreak havoc until we get conscious about what’s going on and understand the healing path forward.

Through evolutionary astrology, I’ve been able to put words to feelings I’ve had all my life by studying my chart. I arrived in this body well honed spiritually with strong intuitive abilities, but with deep scars/wounds attempting to help another(s) as we were up against a hellscape situation. With awareness and this knowledge, I am better equipped to navigate situations that may mirror this karma. Ultimately, to heal it.

(At this point, our little Bumbles has grown weary indicating a need for more help. I just fetched my bug rescue cup and watched her fly to safety.)

Which brings me to direct focus on the topic of help. How and when we help ourselves and how and when we help others is essential.

True help supports spiritual evolution, no matter who it’s for.

This is where our angels come in – to help us get clear on both the how’s and the when’s. And probably the who’s, the what’s and why’s too.  

The essence of all true helping, inward and outward, lies in a pure intention: serving the highest good.

How often do we push forward in a rush to heal because we’re tired of being in a hard place? I know I’ve been here. Thing is, healing from a hurried space puts a cap on the outcome because we’re fighting the Divine Flow.

How often do we hide from the healing because some part of us is too scared to go there? Been here too. Recently. For me, a master guide to hold my hand as I face the hellscape has been pivotal.

And when it comes to helping others…

If we’re really honest, how often do we “help” someone in part because it makes us feel better?

A good example—one I used with my students years ago—is this: when a client (or a loved one) is sobbing, we might rush to hand them a tissue before they’ve had the chance to complete the healing release. Not necessarily because it’s the most supportive choice, but because it’s painful for us to witness and their wound is mirroring a tender ache within ourselves – an unconscious hurt part in us wants the moment to stop.

And then there’s the importance of supporting another by allowing them to fall so they remember how to get back up. (Of course being there to help them if they can’t.)

It would seem that on a grander scale, humans need some help knowing how to help both themselves and each other.

What can we do about it? Make sure we’re keeping our intentions clear and rolling up our sleeves to help ourselves and all those in our respective circles.

I get this vision of lots and lots of interconnected circles -healing, glowing and amplifying the Love to create a glorious, healed Circle of Oneness. ​​​​​​​

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